Mmkayy well ive alreadyy asked this questio once.
I didnt explain it right with details and stuff, and i was in a hurryon the last one and messed up the spelling.
Mmkay so me and my girlfriend Lauren, we have been together for 2 years and almost a month.
We are both living together right now we have for almost a year.
We are both 19. Just turned 19.
Im a senior in high school in florida.
Lauren she was homeschooled her whole high school years.
Shes already graduated.
So she never got to go to prom.
So while we first started dating which was sophomore year of my high school career. Anyways i asked her my sophomore year, if she would go to prom with me my senior year.
She teared up, and said of course she would. She said it would mean alot to her cause she never had a prom.
So i told her, well baby i wanna make that night, a night youll never forget.
Now look at us were both still together everything is absolutley amazing together. Were still deeply in love with each other, and i fall more and more and love with her as each moment passes by. Shes absolutley amazing. Were both going to college together next year, shes going to study to be a nurse, and im going to study to be a doctor.
I know i wanna spend the rest of my life with her.
Shes nothing like any other girl ive been with, she much more. Shes absolutley everything and more ive wanted in a girl. I love her i really do. Ive never felt the feelings i feel that i have lauren with any other girl.
So thats explaining us a little.
Heres the proposal plan:
Mmkay lauren has always had this dream of me proposing to her on the beach. Since junior years she always talked about that dream.
Anyways like u know she never when to prom.
And the night of our prom will be the day before our 2 year 2 month.
So after we go to prom im thinking that after we go to prom, dinner, then ill take her to the beach and propose to her.
I think it will be very special to her since she never went to prom.
And like i said i wanted to do simething special to make it a night she will never forget.
Im ready to spend the rest of my life with her. Shes the only girl i wanna spend it with.
What do you think of this? Help?
It’s sweet but what’s the rush? What about a promise ring instead? Like after you two graduate from college you get married.
That sounds really cute!
I know people are going to say you are too young, but who are we to judge??
(I got engaged at 18…10 days after graduation…)
im 19 my fiances 21 ill still be 19 till november and im getting married in september. do it it sounds so sweet! good luck and congrats!
It’s really sweet and I think you should go for it! You’ll make her the happiest girl alive . Just let it be a long engagement!
sorry but it doesn’t matter if you are explaining this again..i just stopped reading when you said you both are 19!!!!
definitely not a good idea..unless you are planning for a long long engagement..
I mean are you financially ready to start planning a wedding…or even a family? do you own your own place..both of your have a career? have enough savings?
if your answer is no…then dont even bother proposing yet.. i think you should wait but if you cant wait..
YOu can get her a promise ring..that makes more sense for you..since you still have your whole lives ahead of you…
you are still young..take your time and enjoy your relationship…get know each other….
that’s my advice.
your still in high school. you dont need to be thinking about marriage. im not saying dont get married but go to college . you need to be able to support yourselves and you cant right now. wait just a little bit. if it is true love then it will be 2-5 years from now. dont rush things.
That sounds really nice and sweet – my only advice is that you both need to wait a little while before you make this choice of getting married. Yes, you love her and she loves you, but if this is whats meant to be, she’ll be there next year and will say “yes” when you propose to her.
Wait a year. Experience college and get engaged this early. Theres no need.
What you can do though, is buy a promise ring. Tell her that you want to propose to her, but it just isn’t the right time … but it is the right time to make a promise to each other. That you both will be there for each other. It’ll buy you a little more time and let her relax a bit too. Much better plan than proposing.
I think you’re both too young to think about getting engaged: you have your whole lives ahead of you! Why rush? I understand that you’re in love but nothing is going to change if you give it a couple more years. I met my fiance at 17 and we’re getting married in 2 weeks, but we are 25 now. See, it can be done. Besides, how many girls have you really been with if you’re 19 and have been with her for 2 years already?
The proposal idea is kind of cute, although I think that because an engagement is an adult concept (and is the ultimate promise of commitment and responsiblity) it is a little strange that you want to propose with a high school-related theme. That is why I say you should wait a few years, grow together, and then start talking about it. If you’re still in high school, how are you going to support your wife to be? Think about it, REALLY think about it, and hopefully you decide to give it some more time.
Good luck.
I hope you take the advice seriously and also not as any kind of disrespect towards your relationship. I believe that you and your girlfriend are in love and sounds like you are committed to one another. So enjoy what you have and WAIT. Learn more about each other, grow together…waiting a few more years can make all the difference. It sound like you both have great goals you want to achieve. These career paths are going to consume a lot of your time while in school training to get there. Be prepared to not see much of each other once you really get into your medical programs. My best advice is that you both support each other in reaching your career goals and then talk about marriage once you are stable and actually out there working in those fields.
I’ll be honest, sometimes young marriages work, many MANY end in divorce. Statistics show (sorry I have to go there…) young adults married between ages 18-25 have the highest divorce rate. The problem FINANCES. Are you both truly prepared to share financial responsibility to each other? You have to budget a home, food, insurance, extra spending. Don’t go put everything on charge cards because it will only add to the stress once the fun of engagement/wedding phase has passed. Also you both have some great goals it seems, but goals that are going to keep you extremely focused and busy for a few years.I am 26 and will be 27 when I get married. I went to school, got a job, managed my own finances for a few years before we started planning our life together.
If you feel this is what you are ready for. Best of luck to you both and I wish you a bright and happy future!